Wise words from the late John Goode. I learnt more from John in a week of Instructor assessment than I had gained in the previous 15 years!
Admittedly my first experience of reefing was more difficult, when the boom was rotated by a crank on the front of the mast, maintaining sail shape was impossible, and changing headsails was a very wet and dangerous affair, but it was always then the practice to start the engine and head directly into wind.
This ensured that, on the foredeck, you were alternately tossed airborne, then plunged chest-deep into the sea, as you wrestled to un-hank and acre of foresail.
John taught me that if you sailed comfortably close to the wind, and eased the sheets on the sail you wish to reef, set, or hand, not only do you retain control of the boat, but the wave peaks become less steep and further apart! Do this on a starboard tack and you have gained a further advantage. Practice sailing under main or jib alone. Some boats do it better than others, and you probably won’t get as close to the wind, but it is useful knowledge to have in your toolbox.
I have often stated that, for the first 15 years, I screamed about The Solent, praying that the rig stayed up and that nobody fell off, and it was a true epiphany to find that it didn’t have to be like that!
Reef down when you first think of it and have a cup of tea and think some more before you shake it out.
Jim Crick